Divorce Doesn’t Discriminate. — And That’s the Truth

Divorce isn’t just something that happens to other people. It’s not reserved for those who are broken or unstable or who “should’ve known better.” Divorce happens to the educated. The confident. The well-rounded and intelligent. It happens to the people who seem to have it all together—those running businesses, raising children, managing households, and making big decisions every day.

You might be one of them. You do it all… until one day, the life you built starts to unravel.

Here’s the truth: Divorce can and will likely derail you.

Even if you saw it coming. Even if you were the one who initiated it. Even if you’ve made peace with the decision, it doesn’t mean you won’t feel the impact. Whether you’re sitting in a corner office or on the floor of your bedroom, divorce doesn’t care about your resume. It cuts through all of that.

There will be grief, sadness, anger, resentment, confusion, and moments of deep despair.

You are not immune.

One of the most unexpected experiences in divorce is something I call divorce brain—a fog that settles in and lingers. Suddenly, simple decisions feel overwhelming. Your mind, once so sharp, now feels like it’s stuck in slow motion. Your emotional bandwidth is maxed out, and the mental clarity that once defined you feels out of reach.

It’s OK to not be OK. In fact, it’s normal.

You’re human. You’re navigating a major life transition, and that means it’s going to get messy. The grief of divorce is real, and it often catches people off guard. It’s not just the end of a marriage—it’s the end of a shared future, routines, identity, and dreams you once held close.

And that’s why support is everything.

Too many people try to go it alone. They call a lawyer, sign the papers, and think that’s the end of the process. But divorce isn’t just a legal battle—it’s an emotional journey. One that requires guidance, healing, and a plan to rebuild.

That’s where a divorce coach comes in.

Hiring a divorce coach isn’t a luxury—it’s the new normal. It’s the wise choice for anyone who wants to move through this transition with clarity, strength, and support. A coach helps you navigate the chaos, focus on what matters, and start laying the foundation for what’s next.

You can survive this. You will survive this.

But you don’t have to do it alone.

Would you be ready to take your next step forward?

Let’s talk. As a divorce and life reinvention coach, I help women like you navigate the emotional storm of divorce and rediscover their power, purpose, and peace.

Schedule your free clarity call today—and let’s map out your path to healing and hope. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. You just have to take the first step.

https://go.oncehub.com/FreeConsultationcall

And if you’re looking for inspiration and real conversations around life after divorce, don’t miss my podcast, Second Act: Navigating Grey Divorce, streaming on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.

You’re not broken—you’re becoming. Let’s do this together.


Nanette Murphy

I help women heal, reclaim their power and step boldly into a new life.

To assist them as they navigate this transition;turning this challenging time into an opportunity so they can experience growth and empowerment.

As a Life Reinvention Coach for Divorced Women, I provide something beyond traditional therapy, and it’s the support most divorced women desperately need. Divorce can shatter your sense of self, leaving you feeling disconnected, doubting your worth, and uncertain about your future. Many women attempt to push through on their own, often relying solely on willpower and sheer determination. But without true healing and the right guidance, they fall into familiar traps, repeating patterns and feeling stuck, only to end up right back where they started.

https://www.livelifenowwithpurpose.com
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